Topic started by vignesh (@ 61.1.201.4) on Mon Feb 23 07:42:18 EST 2004.
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my love was failure, now i had all the bad habits, what i can do?, i'm now alone in the world, i can't do anything, i'm worried about my love.....please say some correct information to come out my life.
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Responses:
- From: Kathir (@ 212.138.47.26)
on: Mon Feb 23 12:30:29 EST 2004
Vignesh, do not brand it by any name and do not call anything as failure. Remember, it's'n't possible to learn cycling without getting a few scratches on your elbows or knees. It's'n't possible to learn swimming without gulping a few ounces of water.
I know a little about life and nothing about love. Yet I can say this with confidence.. There is no victory without some loss, no freedom without some sacrifice and no experience without some pain.
Imagine u r walking through a tunnel. The sunshine might be just a few yards away.. Keep walking. Just keep walking.
- From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in)
on: Mon Feb 23 14:25:24 EST 2004
vignesh,
ur life is not over! u may meet better love ........just wait.........keep ur fingers crossed..........remember one thing...its not great to go behind somethign which does not respect or realize one's worth!
NEVER BE ALONE.
be amidst friends
dont read depressing articles, poetries, stories etc
if possible develop a healthy friendship with some person of opposite sex, I MEANT ONLY HEALTHY FREIDNSHIP. IT may do wonders to boost up ur confidence.
Tell ur self u are so good in everyway,and u deserve something better...which is yet to come.
I wish u very best in life.
regards,
shakthi
- From: suresh (@ 61.95.227.151)
on: Tue Feb 24 01:01:50 EST 2004
:-)
vignesh,
bakthi enbathu oru feeling... just like love.
just because you are pious, does god gives everything what you pray? but, do u ever stop praying or being pious to god?
similarly, love is also a feeling. nothing to lose. just do it... that is all... you would reep some other day.
cheer up... failure and success is all in our mind, and it is our imaginations. freek out... party... laugh laugh and laugh... and that will bring lots and lots of love to you.
nobody trusts or loves a drunkard. come out of that. always be polite and helpful to others. you will never feel solitude. ( i think, only because you feel lovely, you drink... right? )
i am not sure whether all my suggestions suits you.
but one thing is for sure, love is not a race to fail or succeed... it is a feeling. dont expect anything, and you will feel the success.
cheer up man... cheer up....
( «ôÀ¡¼¡ ... ´Õò¾ý «ð¨ÅŠ §¸ðÎÃôÀ¼¡§¾... :-)) :-)) )
:-)
- From: suresh (@ 61.95.227.151)
on: Tue Feb 24 01:07:27 EST 2004
:-)
vignesh,
after giving all my "advises: ( LOL), i happened to go thourgh thiru adipodi's writing which i have reproduced below. i think that would console you to some extent...
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‘¸ñÎ’ ¦¾Ç¢ó¾Åý
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- SMILE SMILE SMILE SMILE SMILE...
We people are here for you.
:-)
- From: vignesh (@ 61.2.224.92)
on: Wed Feb 25 07:34:31 EST 2004
kathir anna, shakthi akka, suresh anna, thanks for u'r advice, i will follow u'r instruction and do like that
very very thanks for u'r advice
bye
vignesh
- From: malligai (@ rdsl120.dnvr.uswest.net)
on: Wed Feb 25 10:49:23 EST 2004
Suresh,
//( «ôÀ¡¼¡ ... ´Õò¾ý «ð¨ÅŠ §¸ðÎÃôÀ¼¡§¾... :-)) :-)) )//
nala maatinaar vignesh...
:)) :))
- From: vignesh (@ 61.1.201.13)
on: Fri Feb 27 07:44:00 EST 2004
thanks malligai akka
- From: siwa (@ 219.95.230.224)
on: Sat Feb 28 11:23:15 EST 2004
vignes yaaru yenna sonnalum ungaliye maaathikirathu ungga kayilthaan irukirathu....so yaaru ungaluku advice sonnalum ungaluku ippa kekura vayasu illaynu nenakiren.....athe seyal paduthura pakkuamum irukallanu nenakiren....so ungga manasuku nalllathunu paduratha seiyingga.....vaaallthukaludan puthiya pathayai todanggungal........
- From: unknownrebel (@ )
on: Sat Mar 13 12:55:29
immature love - " i need you because i love you "
mature love - " i love you because i need you "
- From: unknownrebel (@ )
on: Sat Mar 13 12:55:35
immature love - " i need you because i love you "
mature love - " i love you because i need you "
- From: Jesee (@ 203.200.30.4)
on: Tue Mar 16 03:55:10 EST 2004
Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life and one
chance to do all the things you want to do.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,
an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone,
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
It's true that we don't know what we've
got until we lose it, but it's also true
that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.
When the door of happiness closes,
another opens, but often times we look
so long at the closed door that we don't
see the one which has been opened for us.
Maybe God wants us to meet a
few wrong people before meeting
the right one so that when we finally
meet the right person, we will know
how to be grateful for that gift.
---- Not mine . But worthy to be posted here
- From: ramya (@ 210.212.247.226)
on: Tue Mar 16 10:37:01 EST 2004
very..........nice Jesee
- From: Rasigan (@ 219.95.26.63)
on: Tue Mar 23 16:51:24 EST 2004
Jesee,
The line about the door f happiness really goes 2 me yaar...
That`s wat im going through know...Ill try 2 correct my wayz Jesee...
Thx, Rasigan
- From: tiger (@ manageengine.org)
on: Fri Mar 26 03:21:12 EST 2004
hey stupid ,
u better die ...
nothing is lost if u die ....
All the best.
cheers,
Tiger
- From: SARKUNARAJAH@RAJA (@ )
on: Sun Sep 12 07:26:30
hai u life is same like me . i also a love failure .i also got all the badhabits. from now dont trust woman but trust your family and spend time with them.YOUR LIFE WILL BE ENJOY WITH YOUR FAMILY . THINKING ABAOUT YOUR LIFE AND DONT TRUST THE WOMAN AGAIN OKEYYYYYY.......LIFE WITHOUT LOVE IS BETTER
- From: cleopatra (@ 203.145.181.190)
on: Mon Sep 13 01:40:31 EDT 2004
hey ,
mr. sarkun ..dont forget dat family comprises of your mum,...who is also a "woman"...there are few ppl who are woman of substance...dont blame da entire famale kingdom..for a single species of its kind....
get going
cleo..
- From: Meena (@ ebuilding.com.my)
on: Mon Sep 13 02:07:40 EDT 2004
Wow..so easy for you all to give advises... but do u all know that in practical that is the hardest thing to do? Please think twice before you give advice to other people...coz u dont know their REAL situation...
- From: Faithful Friend (@ )
on: Mon Oct 4 01:53:09
Count your blessings, not your problems. There are moments in life when
you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams
and hug them for real. When the door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the
one, which has been opened for us.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that
fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile
to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.
Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want
to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things
you want to do.
- From: malligai (@ 63-227-114-65.dnvr.qwest.net)
on: Tue Oct 5 01:07:49 EDT 2004
//There is no victory without some loss, no freedom without some sacrifice and no experience without some pain. //----WOW KATHIR, i like that...
//but one thing is for sure, love is not a race to fail or succeed... //--SURESH, did u copy this from my posting elsewhere??...(or did i copy urs??..)..hahha..
- From: malligai (@ 63-227-114-65.dnvr.qwest.net)
on: Tue Oct 5 01:08:49 EDT 2004
'Faithful Friend'
i like ur posting very much...
- From: cbe123 (@ ppp45-164.dsl-coim.eth.net)
on: Tue Oct 5 01:35:31 EDT 2004
it is good Faithfulfriend.
- From: parthiben the Lone Ranger (@ 202.75.176.218)
on: Tue Oct 5 04:24:49 EDT 2004
Stupid fella...y do u sound so pathetic? It is a must to have a girlfriend in this world? Or dont u realize that ur family matters most? Had u realized how ur parents will feel/ felt when they know about your so called 'developed bad habits due to love failure'? As a child, what's your responsibilty to them? To cry over split milk..is it? Love your family first...before loving others. Dumb @$$!
- From: shyam (@ ppp-219.65.109.110.chn.vsnl.net.in)
on: Sun Oct 10 04:53:48 EDT 2004
im really feeling lonely... a bit of love failure too. a bit because, i never told that girl that im in love and shes married now. it is my mistake. But im not doing good at job due to a heavy heart. Im not confident on myself. my friends are neglecting me. im not previleged to be near magnanimous ppl. All because im lean and dont look that good!!! ppl are mocking at me.
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